Today marks 13 years that Adam and I have been together as a couple. I can’t believe it’s been that long! Yet it seems like just yesterday we were sitting in Applebees Skating Rink and he asked me to be his girlfriend. We were young. It was awesome. It still is.
Some memories:
We were introduced by a mutual friend and we talked only on the phone from the beginning of August until Oct 16th when we met for the first time face to face. I had already fallen for him before this though. I played in the band (clarinet) and I was sitting with the band in the bleachers when he came walking up with his parents. I will never forget how nervous he looked or the green jacket he was wearing. My heart was pounding because I couldn’t believe this guy was really there for ME. I had never dated anyone before.
After the game he called me and we talked all night. He asked me to go to the skating rink with him on Sunday (Oct 18th). Sometime after we had been skating for a while we were sitting at a table and he took my hand and asked me to be his girlfriend. Young love. :)
The first time we kissed was a month or so after we had been dating. He was at my house and we were out in the barn feeding my horse. We were just there talking when he kissed me. It was a magical moment. He says that he misses the smell of sweet feed in my hair.
We went to a school dance but neither one of us really cared about dancing. So we went out to where his sister would be picking us up. We sat under an umbrella because it was raining and made out.
The first time he told me he loved me, he hung up on me. He said “I love you, bye”. I was shocked. I knew that I loved him but I hadn’t had the courage to tell him so. So I called him back and asked if he really meant it. Of course he did. I told him that I loved him too. Best moment ever.
A few years later when we were living together he surprised me by taking a bunch of blankets outside so we could lay out there and look at the stars. One of the top 10 nights of my life.
On Christmas day in 2006 he asked me to be his wife in front of his family and our friends, including the guy that introduced us. It was perfect. In March of 2008 we stood up in front our families and friends and declared our love for each other. I wouldn’t change any of it.
More times than I can count he has brought me flowers that he has either bought or picked himself, just because. He has always done those little things to make me feel special and loved every day. He is the most romantic thoughtful man that I have ever met. He takes care of me. He’s strong. He works hard every day for us. He’s the other half of my soul. I couldn’t be me without his love every day.
Over the years we were dating people would tell me that I should date around. That you shouldn’t just date one person. But I always said, Why would I want to date around when I have already found the love of my life? Sure I was only 15 and he was only 14 when we met but we both knew that it was a forever kind of love. When he asked me to be his girlfriend he was asking for forever … not just that moment.
Tomorrow I’m going to try to scan and post some old pictures :)